Money

Redundancies uncertainty

Hi, My work told us that they’ll be announcing redundancies next week. This was pretty shocking, but also what shocked me more was that part of me wants it to be me. I have wanted to leave for a while, and am currently setting myself up to go freelance – and there is part of …

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Moving into a smaller flat?

Hi coaches, I currently live in a really nice, spacious flat that I absolutely love and that has got everything that I ever wanted in a flat. It’s airy, I can dance around in it, the light is gorgeous, it has a little terrace and garden. I really, really love it. It is, however, very …

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Dog-sitting quandary

Hi, (This might seem like a random one, but I think I’m making it mean more than it is – so would appreciate any guidance!) A few months ago, a friend of a friend got in touch to ask if I’d be up for dog sitting their dog once a week, as they had a …

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Not feeling congruent

I’d like some coaching on this thought I have that my results are not congruent with the image I have of myself. I’m a type of coach (alongside my paid employment), and I have done a massive amount of work on myself to think about myself as a coach. I struggled with feeling ‘not enough’ …

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Stealing

Hi! I had a situation come up the other day, where a friend told me how she steals a lot from stores. It is not just food and essential items, but expensive luxury items and art supplies. She is fully capable of working, but chooses not to most of the time. She has totally justified …

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Working less hours Prt2

When I look at my reasons to cut back hours I see emotions such as: overwhelm. When I look at my reasons to not cut back hours I see emotions such as: fear of rejection/fear of financial loss. You said ‘you know what you want, trust yourself.’ That is true. I want to work less …

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Job insecurities

Hi, I’m a creative and last year I struggled for money so I managed to get some work with my dads (small) software company after sending a message to the boss and proposing things I could do to improve their social media and overall marketing presence. We did a video/ photo shoot with them, and …

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Massive action

When I listen to massive action and honouring your yeses, and goals podcasts I keep replaying a current idea of setting up a small business venture to take me away from my 9-5. What stops me is spending money to set it up (as well as fear of failure, other people’s opinions,time etc). Am I …

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Having Fun

Hi coaches, I have a hard time being able to relax and enjoy the moment, especially when I am in situations which I have been looking forward to for a while. My mind seems to always wander, or I come home feeling like something is missing. I am always expecting more from people I think, …

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Finding my goal

Hey, I need some help around setting my goal for this season. I work as a songwriter and have for the last 6 months worked really hard. Ive had the mentality that if I throw a lot at the wall, surely something will stick. As a songwriter there is a lot of things outside my …

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Starting a new career

Hi there, I’m a new member of the collective and I am starting to work my way through the materials but I have also just returned to freelancing and all the joys (highs) and fears (lows) that brings so I feel like I do need some support ‘up front’ to try and calm my brain. …

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Spending money

I have noted down some results I’d like to see related to working on my garden with my parents (sharing this part in case it’s useful for other members to see, as it occurred to me today that coaching doesn’t need to just be used on the typical ‘big life changing decisions’, but can be …

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recovering from burnout

Hi coaches! I am recovering from what I believe is a burnout, that had been building up over the past years. I now feel so much better already, but I still have to be very protective of my energy. I notice that when I put a little too much on my plate, I relapse quite …

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Career Change Fears

Hello coaches, I’ve got coaching here before about my job and my boss, basically trying to make it work for me. I’ve concluded that my job has to change and not me. I’m an ESL teacher but have never felt good in the role. It’s split shifts, badly paid and short term contracts. I feel …

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Fear of following my dreams

Hello ❤️ Last year I applied to have my art sold in a gallery and on Artsy online. My application was successful and I was given to opportunity to be respresented by the gallery. It’s probably been around six months since I’ve been accepted and I have done very little towards setting up my account, …

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Promotion Pt. II

Thank you for your coaching on this – it was really helpful. I told my boss my timeline for when I’d like the team restructure/promotion to happen and that got him into gear and I followed up with him again and kept him accountable on it and yesterday he presented the proposal to the senior …

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Getting better at having money

Hi wonderful coaches! I’d like some help on how to get more comfortable having and spending money. In the last 18months I’ve gone from paid full-time employment to part-time self-employment. I did some work dismantling what I believed I ‘could’ earn in 3 days a week and had the goal to match my full-time salary. …

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Leaving the FC

When requesting to leave the FC, it was recommended that I come to Ask A Coach before leaving. My payments for the FC have bounced 3 times due to not having funds. This is the first time in my entire life I have had a payment bounce. I’m embarrassed. I know how and why this …

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Profit First

My Spring goal is to live in abundance and change my relationship with money. In the money mindset workshop Maisie mentioned she uses the Profit First system. I’m reading the book and I’m feeling alittle overwhlemed by the complexity. Just wondering how does Maisie use Profit First in her coaching business? What percentage of her …

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Money

Hello, I’m having some thoughts about money and about wanting to have more of it. I inherited a lot if debt when I got married and then a hugely expensive and unforeseen circumstance in 2020 pushed us into a deeper financial hole just when we were beginning to see light. Together my husband and I …

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Managing uncertainty and fear

I am about to defend my dissertation for my doctorate. I’m excited and looking forward to celebrating so many years of hard work. But I’ve spent a lot of the last two days in tears and completely spiraling because of what happens next. Yesterday, a few horrible things happened including a sudden $1000 in expenses, …

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Promotion

One of my spring goals is to get a promotion at work. It’s something I’ve spoken to my boss about and he wants it for me, too. Since I started in my job I’ve tripled annual revenue but last year fell 50% short of the goal for the year. The thought is that I don’t …

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Indecision

Hello! So I have been dealing with quit a lot indecision within my job roles. There are many factors affecting what I chose and I have been finding it difficult. I moved away from 9-5 as my partner works Tuesday to Sunday with a day off in the week and we try to both have …

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Help –

I’ve just ended another day at a high payed pubic health job, where I am really feeling the pressure. I’m putting in extra hours to try and produce something that I think they want from me, but I’m also not sure what they want from me – and I am very intentional about being direct …

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Analyzing my dream

Maisie spoke about dreams in her goal setting call today. My dream is about resting and pleasure. I see myself wearing beautiful clothing, going to the opera, waking up in a beautiful hotel room with crisp white cotton sheets, drinking tea in bed and then reading the paper at a table outside a cafe with …

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Making decisions

I have read back my notes from the end of Dec beginning of Jan after listening to Maisie talk about making decisions. I would like some help on making my decision. I want to change my work. I like my workplace (school) but it is 6 days a week , long days and I am …

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Overwhelm and comparison

Hi, I am feeling particularly overwhelmed at the moment and I’m noticing its affecting many areas of my life. I am working on my business and feel like I’m making little progress as I see what others are doing in a similar field and worry I’m not up to it…then that my website isn’t good …

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Finding joy in my work

Hi, seven years ago, my husband started on a journey to create our own start-up. I joined him in 2018 full time (-ish, as I had to freelance to make a living). We have launched in the mass-market twice, so on paper, we are successful and others envy us. We have a way to go …

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Boundaries with family

I have tried to be explicit setting a boundary with my sister asking her not to ask me to lend her money. She asked me can she put money on my credit card for the space of 6 days. I think this is the part the makes it feel harder to say no, because it’s …

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asking for a promotion

Last summer, after ruminating about this for quite a while, I asked my boss for more responsibilities in order to use my full potential and to keep growing. And I also asked for a promotion. My boss was very surprised by me requesting a promotion as before I had just quietly been doing my thing …

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Money Mindset and Fear/Control

Hi coaches, I recently watched the money mindset video and found it really interesting. However I did find that I seem to have the opposite problem to some of what was talked about. I don’t have any issues with not knowing my money or avoiding dealing with it, I do the opposite…every day I check …

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Money Mindset

I worked through the Money Mindset workshop and uncovered a lot of shame/guilt I’d like coaching to work through. -My parents built wealth from little family resources, and are able to help buy property for me. It will give me ease in life and freedom from mortgage but I feel guilt around not building the …

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Big ideas

Hi coaches, Your post in the facebook page got me thinking. The recalibrate workshops and the winter workshop made me feel SO inspired. I have a lot of big ideas. And the winter workshop put me into a model that made me think okay what if this were possible, what if this were simple, what …

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