Money

Managing uncertainty and fear

I am about to defend my dissertation for my doctorate. I’m excited and looking forward to celebrating so many years of hard work. But I’ve spent a lot of the last two days in tears and completely spiraling because of what happens next. Yesterday, a few horrible things happened including a sudden $1000 in expenses, …

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Promotion

One of my spring goals is to get a promotion at work. It’s something I’ve spoken to my boss about and he wants it for me, too. Since I started in my job I’ve tripled annual revenue but last year fell 50% short of the goal for the year. The thought is that I don’t …

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Indecision

Hello! So I have been dealing with quit a lot indecision within my job roles. There are many factors affecting what I chose and I have been finding it difficult. I moved away from 9-5 as my partner works Tuesday to Sunday with a day off in the week and we try to both have …

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Help –

I’ve just ended another day at a high payed pubic health job, where I am really feeling the pressure. I’m putting in extra hours to try and produce something that I think they want from me, but I’m also not sure what they want from me – and I am very intentional about being direct …

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Analyzing my dream

Maisie spoke about dreams in her goal setting call today. My dream is about resting and pleasure. I see myself wearing beautiful clothing, going to the opera, waking up in a beautiful hotel room with crisp white cotton sheets, drinking tea in bed and then reading the paper at a table outside a cafe with …

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Making decisions

I have read back my notes from the end of Dec beginning of Jan after listening to Maisie talk about making decisions. I would like some help on making my decision. I want to change my work. I like my workplace (school) but it is 6 days a week , long days and I am …

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Overwhelm and comparison

Hi, I am feeling particularly overwhelmed at the moment and I’m noticing its affecting many areas of my life. I am working on my business and feel like I’m making little progress as I see what others are doing in a similar field and worry I’m not up to it…then that my website isn’t good …

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Finding joy in my work

Hi, seven years ago, my husband started on a journey to create our own start-up. I joined him in 2018 full time (-ish, as I had to freelance to make a living). We have launched in the mass-market twice, so on paper, we are successful and others envy us. We have a way to go …

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Boundaries with family

I have tried to be explicit setting a boundary with my sister asking her not to ask me to lend her money. She asked me can she put money on my credit card for the space of 6 days. I think this is the part the makes it feel harder to say no, because it’s …

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asking for a promotion

Last summer, after ruminating about this for quite a while, I asked my boss for more responsibilities in order to use my full potential and to keep growing. And I also asked for a promotion. My boss was very surprised by me requesting a promotion as before I had just quietly been doing my thing …

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Money Mindset and Fear/Control

Hi coaches, I recently watched the money mindset video and found it really interesting. However I did find that I seem to have the opposite problem to some of what was talked about. I don’t have any issues with not knowing my money or avoiding dealing with it, I do the opposite…every day I check …

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Money Mindset

I worked through the Money Mindset workshop and uncovered a lot of shame/guilt I’d like coaching to work through. -My parents built wealth from little family resources, and are able to help buy property for me. It will give me ease in life and freedom from mortgage but I feel guilt around not building the …

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Big ideas

Hi coaches, Your post in the facebook page got me thinking. The recalibrate workshops and the winter workshop made me feel SO inspired. I have a lot of big ideas. And the winter workshop put me into a model that made me think okay what if this were possible, what if this were simple, what …

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Money Mindset

Not a so much a coachy question – but help please: As I enter the new year – still very much in Winter, having reviewed my Autumn goals and what’s left in the residual for me – I want to work on my Money Mindset – I know there are resources specific to this inside …

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Doubts about career change

C: I have been working in an amazing school for 7 years, started as a support worker, then Teacher and now I am starting my journey into senior leadership. When I started it felt like my dream job and so it was for many years. Three years ago I left, looking for new adventures but …

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Guilt over my kids

I’m struggling with feelings of guilt over all 3 of my children needing expensive orthodontic work. I’m feeling guilty that they have to go through the pain and inconvenience of it (I made them so it must be my fault they all have issues) And I feel guilt about spending so much money on all …

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Self hate

I have made a couple of mistakes in the last 24 hours. – I fixed a shelf to the wall wrong and now can’t get it off to put it right (though my partner says he’ll fix it when he feels better from being ill) and I somehow managed to set the thermostat to being …

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Money issues

I caught a thought/feeling today about expecting that money isn’t always going to be there in the immediate future, like when I think about future plans I imagine I’ll have children but be skint as a parent and it will be difficult, rather than living in abundance. I know this is from my conditioning and …

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Getting braces

I had braces as a teenager, but never wore my retainer (so much regret here!) and my teeth have become wonky. I am very self conscious about this. Last week I took action and went to the dentist to find out how much it would cost to get them sorted, they quoted me £4000 for …

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Money and self-worth

8 years ago I quit my corporate job after a family bereavement changed my world view. I was anxious stressed and working in a job that fuelled these feelings. Staying in it didn’t seem worth it at all. I trained to become a yoga teacher, started my own business, worked less and rewired my nervous …

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Unwillingness to move

Dear coaches, I recently learned I was pregnant, and me and my boyfriend are totally happy about it. But we still live in different cities (ca 1,5 hours by train or 2,5 by car apart), me in a small studio flat, he in a flat share, which means we have to move in together soon …

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Stuck and Overwhelmed

Dear Coach, Hope you are well and having a good day 🙂 I have been wanting from a far (as Maisie puts it) to turn my creative hobbies into a fantastic business for a year and a half but I find when I go to do the work I stall, get stuck, feel nervous and …

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Changes at work

I work three days a week as a manager in the public sector and have worked where I work for 20 plus years. There are lots of changes happening in what feels like a very short period of time and I am finding it difficult to navigate this and not let it consume me. In …

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Membership

With the increases in the cost I’d living I’m afraid I can no longer justify the cost of membership. My intention was to cancel and as I did was prompted to reach out to the Ask A Coach   Answer: If your intention was to cancel, what was the thought and feeling that inspired you …

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Business direction

Hello wonderful TFC coaches. So I have a lot going on in my head when it comes to the next steps of my professional life in the future. A bit of context: I am a yoga teacher. I am 31 years old, been working as a yoga teacher for the last 7 years and it …

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Decoupling money from self-care – feeling I am ‘trapped’ into overworking in order to be able to afford take care of myself

Hello, the money theme has been well timed for me as I’m currently trying to work through some inner conflicts around it, and return to a place of sufficiency and safety. I have been lucky enough to have grown up in family where money was not an issue and for most of my life, it …

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Investing in yourself and your business while also wanting to conceive

Hello, and thanks in advanced to the incredible coaches. Even before Maisie announced this month’s theme, I’ve been on a kick empowering myself with better money mindset and money habits, so the timing has been incredible, but there is still one thing that keeps crazy triggering my nervous system…. I’m currently in the early stages …

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Fear of money

Thoughts download: Im not reliable throughout my entire menstrual cycle. I can become sick again. Health insurance is too expensive. I dont want to loose my free health insurance. I either need to be poor with free health insurance or very rich, but not in the middle, if not i will have to work too …

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Business coaching

Hi there, I’d love some business coaching advice. I’ve reached a point where I know i need to tweak some things in my business and am ready to make some changes. I really want to make this something I can feel proud of and successful. I teach yoga and it’s all still pretty new to …

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Money Expectation 2

Dear Coach, thank you for your answer! I have been thinking about what you wrote, and I really like your suggestions. To the first R: R: I do not see the value in the choices that I have made This is definitely the result I am getting. I worked back on the model so I …

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Money expectation

Dear coach! I would love to get some of your thoughts on these models on money. I have written down others with the same C-line, and different thoughts and feelings. I decided to share these since I think they are really on the basis of what is going on. I am quite unsure about my …

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Money mindset (part 2)

Hi Coaches , so im bringing back and model to continue working on as i seem to have come back to my unintentional model again , this was my cleaned up model and advice i received. C: HV job 4 days/week, Coaching business T: I do not have enough time or money (Is this the …

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Stuck in a model

I’m feeling stuck in model and I can’t get out. The same thoughts keep going round my head. I want to quit my full time job and teach yoga full time (self employed). I’m all set up and ready to go (already have busy classes and more lined up) I just need to hand my …

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