Neurodiversity/Autism/ADHD

Doubt about Autism Diagnosis

A few months ago I was diagnosed with autism. I instigated getting an assessment, and I really wanted the diagnosis as it allowed me to make sense of things. And yet, my mind has not accepted the diagnosis. It says that I have been misdiagnosed. I feel a lot of shame about the possibility of …

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Possible neurodivergence Pt 3

Wow, well the coaching felt very eye-opening when you asked which part of me I am believing is real – the part with stage fright or the part that is delivering the class. It really got me thinking about what ‘real’ actually is. Objectively the more ‘real’ me is the one teaching. After all that’s …

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Possible neurodivergence Part 2

Thank you for the coaching. If I’ve interpreted this correctly, I think I’m being asked to consider how noticing my differences and going through this stage, where I feel somewhat lost, is an important part of developing self confidence. I did a thought download to explore this, and came up with this – Because being …

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Career and self esteem, stuck

Hi, Over the last 10+ years since I started my career at 22 I have always (and continue to) struggled with confidence to be myself in the workplace and to find a job with a sense of fulfilment/satisfaction. I’ve spent most of my career working in support roles which I find under-stimulating and to be …

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Possible neurodivergence

I’m struggling with wondering if I’m neurodivergent/ autistic, and what that means for me. Ever since listening to Maisie’s podcast episodes about discovering that she’s autistic, I’ve felt like I might be too. So much of what she said felt like she was talking about me and my experience. Since then I’m becoming more and …

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Shoulding Vs. Self-Care Pt. 2

That sounds amazing! I’ve been re-watching the self-love webinar and still have some questions: how can I create as much love and connection as I want wihtin myself? Is it ‘just’ that I decide to do it? Is it about entertaining the thought that love and connection are abundant everywhere? How do I do it? …

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Autistic identity

Hi, I’d like some coaching on my autistic identity. The way Maisie talks about it is so inspiring and seems simple and easy. She’s not justifying herself, which is what I like most. I have a different situation and experience. I guess I don’t have enough self-trust to just think positively about myself in general …

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Son with ADHD

Am really struggling with my son today and decided to lean onto the collective. For some reason, this is quite hard for me to talk about and I don’t openly discuss it with anyone. My son is 9 and he has ADHD. He has very poor emotional regulation and gets angry/rageful very easily. When things …

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Shoulding vs. self-care

Hi coaches, I’d like to get some coaching around a topic that occurred yesterday. I have Borderline personality disorder, and one symptom is that my brain anticipates rejection in specific situations very strongly. The specific situation yesterday was: I’m an assistant at university (I quit- my last day will be in February), and my students …

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Freelance burnout pt. 2

“feelings that bring you a sense of calm and joy” What a beautiful notion! This sparked something inside of me and made me realise that while I have always been striving towards joy, I am missing the calm. The sense of urgency was and is still very present. I have been trying to be very …

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How to say no respectfully

Hi maisy and team! Firstly a deep thanks and gratitude for all that you do! Have gotten so much out of the podcast over the last year 💗 A current life dilemma was hoping to get some coaching on My best friend of 20 + years her husband’s 40th is coming up. Our families are …

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Autistic, psychopath, or neither?

I’ve posted this in the community but thought I’d also submit it for Ask a Coach. Ever since listening to Maisie’s podcast episodes about autism, I have started wondering whether I might be somewhere on the spectrum. I have always been highly sensitive to sounds, smells, crowds (among probably a full list of other things) …

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Confusion about Autism Pt.2

Thank you so much for such a understanding reply. I have written my Why’s for persuing an autism assessment. They are as follows: 1. If I am autistic then I definitely want to know about it. 2. It would provide an explanation for certain struggles I experience that are making life quite difficult. It would …

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Confusion about Autism

A few years ago I heard a woman talking about her autism diagnosis. When I heard her talk, it blew my mind that someone like her could have autism. I began to wonder if I also could be autistic. I think this wondering stemmed from feeling different, from struggling with black and white thinking, and …

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ADHD and focus struggles

I was diagnosed earlier this year with ADHD. I am in my mid-twenties and I have really struggled with focusing on work or study since I was 14. I have lost a job before due to focus-related issues and my grades at university were also affected by my inability to submit assignments on time. My …

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Sensory Issues

Hi coaches! I have always had some sensory issues (hyper sensitive to certain sounds such as chewing, cutlery on plates, flicking fingernails) and I am just starting to connect these with my cycle. My coping strategies for when these sensations are happening are: trying to distract myself, telling myself it is the noise that is …

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Barrier to goal setting

Hi, I have a couple of really workable and exciting goals, connected to my business. However, I am trying to overcome a barrier I have created, to move forward with a goal. It may well be a goal itself. In a bid to be open and myself, before I aim to expand my business, I …

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Dealing with the past

I joined TFC recently, finished reading Period Power and am now reading Perimenopause Power. I have known for a while I was perimenopausal and have since reading these come to realise I may have had ADHD and possibly Autism all my life, and PMDD since I was 11 – I am now 51. I have …

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