children age gap pt3

–> what’s the most loving thing you can do for yourself?
Take a breath, feel how Im feeling, let the thoughts be there.
–>How could being wrong be the best thing for you?
Being wrong would mean I would get to feel more relaxed around getting pregnant (I could enjoy the process a more), it wouldn’t be as important if it didn’t happen this month. I would get to be okay with whatever happened. I would really love to love my family however it comes around and whatever happens.
I started making a model to work this through but Im not sure how to go on with it.

C my family
T
F
S
A
R I know my family is beautiful whatever the details are

 

 

Answer:

 

This is such a great model to work on. Let’s take it one line at a time. If the T line and and the R line are entwined, I think we can start at the T line…”My family is beautiful whatever the details are.” How does thinking that thought make you feel? Let’s start here then we can move down the model.

Powerful work on continuing your reflection – keep doing those loving things for yourself.