Coaching out of coaching

Hi there 🙂
So, I keep coaching myself out submitting coaching questions. This is, I think, because I’m well practiced at the model and, if I did more models, I probably wouldn’t get as far as typing here and then not submitting. But also I think it’s about getting value (financial, self development) from this opportunity to get input. So I want to submit, but think I’d be submitting something I’ve already answered for myself (and maybe that other people would think that’s silly – ooh, new thought catch), even though I know outside perspective is useful in teasing out things no matter what stage of figuring out.

I’ve gone with one action which is different to the unintentional model below, which is I’m submitting these thoughts. Ultimately I think I’m disapointed because I’m good at this now 🙂 I enjoy being here, but I am now confident in my abilities to figure things out and the next decision is do I want to stay for the other benefits even if I don’t use this element. And from the above, there is a model to do next on my coaching questions being silly (which intellectually I know isn’t true, but there is an element of being judged cropping up).

C: Submitting a coaching question
R: I don’t submit a question
A: I write out a question, I do a model, I discover something I didn’t see before, I decide I’ve already got what I need
F: Disapointed
T: I don’t need to submit a question

 

Answer:

It’s wonderful to hear that you are so in tune with your thoughts and enjoy the clarity that thought downloads and models provide for you (and nice thought catch there about what other people might think of your question! Definitely an area to explore more!). It’s interesting that your T is “I don’t need to submit a question” – it sounds like you don’t need to, because as you said, you’re well acquainted with thought work by now.

But why might you choose to?

And why do you think you’re going to disappointment in this model?

When you respond, label your response, “Coaching out of coaching pt. 2” so we know what you are following up on!