Decisions

Fellow Flows,
I just made a decision which was very very hard for me, because it meant saying no to a form of disrespect I was used to in my line of work (composer/music producer for theater). It was hard because it means I said NO to a former version of myself who takes decisions out of fear. Which is the one big thing I wanted to change for this year.
Now I took the decision I feel to light and good and empowered. THANKS TO ALL YOUR TEACHINGS!!! But…there is still a little voice doubting myself and telling me I will never be able to make it etcpp
How can I stay with my confidence?
Its so hard for me to stay in discomfort without constant doubt and although I try implementing the Coachings and do everything I can to support myself.
So I guess the question is:
How can I stay in my confidence and not doubt myself the minute someone questions my choices?
Thank you for everything!!
Lots of love

 

Answer:

 

OH MY GOODNESS! THIS IS INCREDIBLE! Go you! We are celebrating you so fiercely right now! How are you celebrating this big leap!?

I love this question about how to stay in confidence when someone doubts your questions and choices. Confidence is what comes after you go through an experience. Courage and dedication is what carries you through the experience in the present moment. Courage is facing a challenge in spite of fear for a higher a higher purpose. Confidence is belief in your abilities. If you are weathering something courageously, fear is a normal part of the equation, and you get to take calculated action to manage it as an integral part of your growth process. It is because of this courage that you develop confidence in your ability to make decisions. Does that make sense?

How would approaching this situation with courage instead of confidence change how you respond to someone questioning your choices? Notice what comes up for you when you answer this question and bring it back to us for more coaching.

In the meantime…PLEASE share your win in the Facebook community! We’re cheering for you!!!