Go For it Goal – follow up

During my 30 day challenge, I reached out to ask another musician for help.
This felt great and I am very proud of myself.
However, after the initial reply with a positive response, I haven’t heard anything for 2 weeks.

Part of me wants to check in and enquire if they have had a chance to look etc. The other part of me does not want to be pushy.
I originally offered to pay, which they did not mention so it seems as if they are doing me a favour – I am unsure what the etiquette is and where I stand.

As I write this I can see that I could be clearer with my communication with them.

I would naturally find this really easy to forget about. I would chalk that up as an unsuccessful lead and move in another direction.
But this time I am reluctant to just give up. I can see that this fits neatly into my “growth zone” and I would like to attempt a bit of discomfort here.
I would like to at least enquire whether they are interested in working together before I move on.

How can I approach this without being rude?

 

 

Answer:

How do you feel when you think “I don’t want to be pushy?”  What does your model look like? Do that first so you can see where you’re getting stuck.  Then I would offer that you listen to yourself and create an intentional model. I see very clearly what you would like to do. What if you dropped the thoughts you have about being pushy/rude and thought about it a different way?

C: 2 weeks since reply from x

T: I don’t want to be pushy

F:

A:

R:

C: 2 weeks since response from x

T:

F:

A: here is where you put in your actions you want to take

R: what result do you want to create?Make sure it’s YOUR result.