After watching the replay of the call ‘cast your vision’ – I came up with these 3 GOALS to focus on before 21st March (I think Maisie said this date) -see below.
My question is am I suppose to decide on 1 of these goals for the next 2.5 months or can I have more? And if so how will I know which one to pick, they all feel very important and urgent. Or because they are different elements of my life is that ok. They all feel interconnected too.
Goal 1: Finally start a 4-legged family (could be a kitten, cat, dog, horses, chickens (I know it’s 2 legs) could be several of just 1 animal
Rock 1 – Find a stable and consistent rental base here is slovenia to accomodate a pet (99% of landlords say they don’t want them, and we haven’t had a solid contract for over 5 years so it feels BIG and difficult to reach right now
Rock 2 – Apply at a rescue centre for an animal and/or go visit the centre to start the application and show interest – They need an address to relates to first rock
Rock 3 – Create a budget for the ongoing cost of an animal – do research into the cost of an animal like 2 cats for example
Goal 2: Feel more confident in friendships, how I act, the decisions I make, in my friendships and ability to have lasting ones
Rock 1 – Get coached on the insecurity I feel on friendships (feeling needy and fearing rejection) I’m 36 and this is still coming up for me following bullying at school from a former best friend who dropped me overnight. I struggled with friendships most of my life, feeling like I don’t get invited to things like ‘normal’ people
Rock 2 – Read a book on friendships and how to have good ones or healthy ones
Rock 3 – Write a letter to myself on the negative bias I have on this, limiting beliefs, the desperation for approval and attention from the few friends I have and then burn it in a symbolic ceremony e.g. That my friendships all end and that people after a while stop liking me
Goal 3: Reach 25 members in the b2b membership I have just 5 so far, paying members whether they pay annual, quarterly, or monthly is fine, this is essential to bringing in more. income to be able to have animals (goal 1)
Rock 1 – Coach myself or get coached on how attainable and within my grasp this actually is (feels big) Especially as it’s linked to goal 2 on being ‘likeable’
Rock 2 – Create a killer membership waitlist page to gain attention, talks about my membership in the FREE events I run and really promote it on linked once per week
Rock 3 – Build my email subscribers to 1,000 (currently 700) and talk about membership in the emails once per week (non-salesly) celebrating wins of members
Answer:
The simple answer? You just pick one. What is your brain telling you about choosing something to focus on? We recommend constraint in goals because it tends to make it easier to get the results you want. That being said…you are an adult and you are welcome to have three goals at once if you like. What do you think would be the most fun for you?
Where do you think the urgency is coming from? What is it trying to tell you? What would be different if you trusted that everything will happen as it should?
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