Leaving

Hi coaches,
I’ve just been in the cancellation page and my reason is that I feel I’m not getting what I need. The page said you are here to help me with that, so here I am with another try.
I have a lot of things going on in my life, I always have and I usually like the variety of it.
At the moment if often becomes overwhelming and I find myself making decisions that are not in my best interest. Why? Because I am in survival mode rather than feeling safe and I don’t know how to get myself out of that place.
When I submit questions to AAC, the answer usually comes after I had to decide one way or another.
Some things are more general and I struggle to phrase them in a way that AAC would help. For those I am raising my hand in almost any coaching call that I can attend, yet I have never been selected for coaching, which is frustrating. So, I am at a loss how to approach this and I am thinking that this might just not be the right format for me. Maybe 1on 1 coaching works better.
Let me know your thoughts.

 

 

Answer:

 

It’s wonderful that you came here with this. Thank you.

We are not here to convince you one way or another – we support you getting the kind of help that serves you best! There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to personal growth and membership programs aren’t for everyone. We fully trust that you know what is right for you. What kinds of general things are you looking for support with when you raise your hand in a coaching call?  Here’s a model that I am seeing emerge in your submission:

C: “General things”
T: I struggle to phrase these things in a way that AAC would help
F: How does that thought make you feel?
S: Where does this show up in your body?
A: Don’t submit questions about general struggles to AAC, consider cancelling my membership – what else do and don’t you do when you feel this way and think this thought?
R: Don’t explore how AAC might help me in a different way with these general things

What do you think about this model? If you could change one thing about it, what would it be? Would you be interested in giving this change a try before you cancel your membership?