Hi, I submitted another ask a coach about a chapter I’m writing atm. But having listened to Maisie’s making moves coaching, it occured to me that I may also be staying stuck here in not finishing it, because that feels ‘safer’.
As long as it’s not finished and sent to agents, I haven’t been ‘rejected’ or ‘failed’.
And also I don’t have to face the possibility of it actually succeeding, and having to make it a reality, put myself out there like that, be seen, and write about personal things, and maybe even actually write the damn thing.
Given this, I’d love to explore ways to make the move and get it done!
Thanks so much
Answer:
In what ways are you currently buffering instead of taking action and letting it feel however it feels? Check in with your nervous system and look for any common patterns you notice coming up when you have a project or deadline. This could be playing into it as well as the way you are thinking. When your brain wants to freeze instead of making a move, how can you remind it that you’re safe?