Money expectation

Dear coach! I would love to get some of your thoughts on these models on money. I have written down others with the same C-line, and different thoughts and feelings. I decided to share these since I think they are really on the basis of what is going on. I am quite unsure about my R-lines, it feels like there is something else I am not really seeing when it comes to this topic. Looking forward to hearing from you 🙂

C: My bank account
T: I should have more money for my age and education
F: Guilt
A: I beat myself up internally for not being in a good financial condition
A: I blame my job and my choices for this
A: I keep imagining that if only I would have become a teacher at the university as I studied for, things would be better
A: I compare myself to other people the same age who are in way better situations
A: I start saving on things that do me good, like organic food
A: I keep thinking about this topic and become anxious
R: I keep putting energy into blaming myself and cannot appreciate what I have already created

C: My bank account
T: It is okay for me to wish to have more money
F: Confident (chest opens up, eyes look forward, smile)
A: I keep picturing myself as someone who can have money
A: I work on my business from a place of curiosity
A: I allow myself to trust that everything I am doing is already right
A: I get excited when thinking about this topic
A: I look for the support of a business coach to support me with this
R: I am able to see myself already now as someone who can create as much money as I would like to

Answer:

These are great models.
Here are a few suggestions that may help them be clearer:

• For the first model, I don’t think saving money is coming from feeling guilty. Not spending money may come from it. 

• To dive a little deeper, you could ask yourself, “Why do I feel guilty for not having more money for my age and education?” The answer to that would be the thought to use in the model. 

Based on the first model, what do you think of this as another possible result:
R: I do not see the value in the choices that I have made

Your second model is a very good intentional model. This is just another R to try out. See which one feels better to you.
R: I am a person who is working toward making more money

What do you think?

You can also ask, “what do I make it the amount of money in my account mean about me?”

Feel free to bring your answers to these questions back for more coaching!