Self belief

Hello,

Can I please get some help on how to do an IM on this situation.

I have recently completed my study to become a qualified health coach (something I absolutely loved studying) and I have always wanted to work for myself.
I have finally figured out what I’d like to do and this career ticks all the boxes I’ve long dreamed of- purpose, a fulfilling career, self employed, work from home (live anywhere), freedom and flexibility, potential to earn well.
I have been creating my website for some months… It is in large finished. I have not shared it yet (apart from editing feedback) and now I am finding myself looking for advertised jobs for health coaches instead on trying it myself and having a crack at what has long been my dream. I know there is fear, perfectionism and low self-confidence all wrapped up in this. Have you any suggestions on how I can move forward please?

Thanks

 

 

Answer:

Do a thought download and answer this question: Why is it a problem that you’re looking for advertised jobs? Pick a few thoughts you find there and put them in unintentional models. It’s important not to skip this step.

Notice the all or nothing thinking that is coming up for you. Your brain is offering you two options-work for yourself and tick all the boxes or work for someone else and what? Be miserable? Fail? Question your brain.

As you move into an unintentional model, think of the result you want. Don’t worry about the how yet.

C: my career

T: What do you want to think to create the feeling that will help you get this result?

F: How would you need to feel to take these actions?

A: What would you need to do to create this result. What would you need to stop doing?

R: I am a paid health coach (or insert your result)

See what comes up and bring any questions back for more coaching.